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164. 粤语| 从众心理真的这么难摆脱吗?

164. 粤语| 从众心理真的这么难摆脱吗?

Update: 2025-09-08
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本期我们从生活里的小场景聊起:看到多人排长队就觉得人多的商店一定更好而选择排队;看到一群人都在做同一件事,自己也想加入,如果是你,你会怎么选?

这种看似简单的选择,其实折射出我们内心深处对“群体”的依赖,是从众心理悄然左右着我们的决策。

节目中我们还延伸到当下的“单身经济”——个体越来越强调自我,却依旧无法完全脱离群体的影响。勒庞

的《乌合之众》中的观点,放到今天依旧振聋发聩:人在群体中往往会失去理性,更容易被情绪裹挟。

那我们究竟该如何在群体中找到平衡?

是随波逐流以求安全感,还是保持独立选择的勇气?

【时间线】

  • 13:10 饭堂只有两张桌子的情况下,你会去人多的桌子还是去没人的桌子?
  • 19:06 意大利人也会扎堆去热门景点旅游?
  • 25:40 意大利小镇红酒节的特别体验
  • 45:09 国内单身经济的盛行
  • 47:55 《乌合之众》的一些观点在今天仍然适用

米兰人夏季的热门海滩Santa Magherita

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164. 粤语| 从众心理真的这么难摆脱吗?

164. 粤语| 从众心理真的这么难摆脱吗?